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Dad's Desk...

Well, we are kicking off a lot of new things with Stillwater Chapter; the start of a new school year; a new newsletter, a new advisor (Mom Cook) and last but not least, a new chapter Dad.

Dad Cook will be taking over for me as Chapter Dad this month. He comes with a great pedigree; Stillwater DeMolay, former Oklahoma DeMolay State officer and Chevalier, and a wife who wants to help (and knows enough about you guys to be dangerous !).

It has been a fantastic three years for me as chapter Dad. We have accomplished a lot; revitalized our chapter with new members, won Exemplary chapter at Conclave, had one of our members elected to state office, had three selected as Chevaliers, and won numerous ritual competitions at the state and national level. But more importantly, Stillwater Chapter has earned the respect and admiration of Masonic youth from around the state. Every DeMolay, Rainbow and Jobs Daughter knows who you are and what you do, and that makes me very proud.

But there are tough challenges ahead. There are chapters out there that want to knock you off the hill as ritual champions. Your response should be “Bring it on !” You goal (and my challenge to you), is to become the first chapter in Oklahoma in A LOT OF YEARS that can do the Initiatory and DeMolay degrees. That will require some work from you, but I know you can do it.

The important thing for you also to remember is; DeMolay is not all memorization work. Keep the chapter involved in doing fun things, or membership will drop off. If you are not looking forward to coming to DeMolay meetings and activities, then something is wrong and you need to change it. This is YOUR organization.

I won’t be going anywhere… I will still be around for meetings, and hauling you guys all over creation. My pledge to you is that I will be there to offer advise when you want it, but to let Dad Cook be the chapter Dad I know he can be. I have had my turn in the sun, and now it is my role to support him so that he and you can receive the continued recognition you deserve.

There are good times ahead, so get ready !

- Dad Singleton